Should engaged men be sending flowers to women they meet in chatrooms ?

I guess if you are "fishing" because your old lady is ready to set your junk on the curb because you cant stay out of AOL drama, Its understandable but not excusable.. If you use the fiances credit card to purchase the flowers it adds a certian DUMBASS element to the situation that makes it especially funny to people looking in .. Its just NOT a cool thing to do.. EVER..